Saturday, January 17, 2009

THE MISSING LINK!!!

Like I said, several days ago I was contacted through the Ancestry.com connection service by a gentleman who I recognized from an email address I used a long time ago in my search through the Kingsley family line. I think the last time I tried to contact him, it was through Genealogy.com, but it was an old email and I don't think he got it. (but thanks for taking interest Sean) Anyways, as I have been trying to confirm the Kingsley line for a long time and I had discounted the Seth, Seth, Calvin line,... I had done the best I could. In the 1870 census there is an elderly lady who lived with Daniel and Maria Kingsley by the name of Anna Meade. Assuming that was her original married name, I included Meade as Maria's last name. In fact, I think I had Maria's name as Marie (in 1850 it is listed as Mariah, 1860 Marie and 1870 Maria). So this guy emails me and asks me where I got Marie Meade from, opening a connection through email that would help mold the Kingsley genealogy forever.

With a username (and I am pretty sure the OLD email address) of kingcongdon, I mistakenly assumed that King Kong Don was taken (kingkongdon). Until we opened this line of communication I didn't realize that he was just referencing the name Congdon (married into the Kingsley line at Daniel Kingsley's daughter, Frances). He gave me a few tidbits in his email but gave me his blog address (see my blog list) which was SATURATED with information that I hadn't had. My family still had Seth as father of Daniel but, again, had no proof of the connection. I will have posts to come with all the things I have learned from this amazing new friend, but for now, I have a gedcom file to update.

Some meandering conversation leading to the next entry.

I started working on family geneology about 7 years ago when I went TDY to Salt Lake City and had the opportunity to stop into the Mormon Family History Center there. It wasn't the first time I had wanted to start, but it was the first time someone showed me how to look up family members in old censuses. Naturally, the first line everybody does is their own last name. I found a straight line from my father, his father, etc back to one Daniel Kingsley (my GGG Grandfather). At that point, there was no more to find. When I got home from that trip, I started asking around the family for further information about the genealogy. The massive amount of information download was incredible. Both the maternal and paternal sides of the family had huge amounts of names, dates, and other info. The one thing that EVERYTHING was missing was substantiation.

Back to the paternal line of Kingsley. I was given names very far back. Beyond Daniel Kingsley, I was given the names of (in ascending order) Seth, Seth, Calvin, Nathan, and 3 Samuels. I contacted several people who had info on the Seth, Calvin, Nathan line, but they had no information on a Daniel as the son of either Seth, or Seth, Jr. After long and diligent struggles to connect that line, I got fed up with it and decided that maybe it really wasn't the right family. I put the Kingsley line on the back burner and started working some other lines.

My father was blessed with the opportunity to spend a good deal of time with his grandmother later in life. "GG", born in 1907, passed away in 2006. She was a faithful, stalwart record keeper. She had recorded the family history from the time she was young, including one family reunion in 1931 and a long, handwritten record that was presented to her parents on their anniversary. As she was his maternal grandmother, she had nothing on Kingsleys, but she had tons on the Myers and Loop families. She even tied into the Morse/Moss and Bartholomew lines from the Conneticut area. Those lines are very well established in the DAR and such.

My mother's family was also somewhat a mystery, but through hard work, research, and an insane amount of luck (I found a whole book, literally) that had Andrew J Fancher (my GGG Grandfather) as the LOWEST generation in the line of Fanchers and 6 generations past him (Thanks to William Hoyt Fancher and the Cabinet Press). The Parker side of my genealogy chart (the bottom 4th) has been somewhat neglected in comparison. It is not from lack of desire, but it seems like the more I work on the other lines, the more stuff I get that I have to verify.

As I mentioned in my last entry, we just got to Germany so I left a LOT of the paperwork behind. If you know anything about military movers, you understand why I wouldn't bring such priceless things, especially overseas. If you don't know anything about military movers, just understand that I have a lot of explaining to do about a certain antique chair that my grandfather refurnished from an old lodge that closed. See, he did about 20 chairs and sold a bunch. The remainder he had with an antique table he pulled out of his uncle-in-laws barn loft and refinished. I had that table until about 3 months ago, when I shipped it (thanks Dad) to my sister with as many chairs as we could fit. That left 2, and he took another later. The last one we wanted to keep and it was the only thing I took that I would have regretted breaking. What do you know? It is destroyed. There may be a way to fix it, but I think it would have to be touched by the hand of God. Sorry guys.

Anyways, part of my genealogy research was purchasing a year subscription to Ancestry.com. It was a good thing for our family research. EXPENSIVE, but good. I still get emails from people asking about different members of my family tree. So, FINALLY to the missing link.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

We made it!!!

I have returned to the land of my childhood, Germany. I have extremely few real memories of this beautiful country. The only one that sticks out distinctly is a trip that my parents took (I am told it was to Austria) where they went skiing. I was told that I was too young to ski (I don't remember how old I was, but I couldn't have been 5 y.o. yet). I was SO MAD! I am sure that is why I still remember it. I was allowed to go ice skating but, of course as an extremely upset child, I didn't want to go ice skating.

Now, apart from that explicit memory, I do have other really vague memories. Like I remember several times looking out of the side of the car, looking off the side of a cliff (or so it seemed to a young child). Thinking back on it, there weren't all THAT many mountains like that in Washington state. Sure we went to Mt. Rainier a couple times but this wasn't that. Another vague memory that I had no clue about until very recently was the smell of LebKuchen. Kuchen is cake, but Lebkuchen is a special "cake" made around christmas. The closest I have a description of is gingerbread, but this is so much better. When we got some (it was on sale, the stuff is kind of expensive), and I opened the chest, the smell was instantaeously recognizable from over 25 years ago! It was amazing. A smell I haven't experienced in so long was SO clear. I bought some for a bunch of family members, but I haven't had the chance to send it out yet. Just little things like that. I am very excited to share that with my family members, though.

As we get through this move I will try to get back on this and add more to what I have. Besides the deployments (where I am pretty sure blogs will be blocked), and my Masters Program (which I hope to finish in 2009), I am making sure that we are planning weekend trips (every week) to see or do something new. As you can see, there isn't a WHOLE lot of time for me to keep this up, so please be patient. Also, if you have any specific questions, you can email me at Capt.Kingsley@gmail.com and I will respond and then post the research for everyone.
C-Ya
Donny